Do you enjoy sleeping in physical contact with your lover?
Lover? Ugh… That word bums me out unless it’s between “meat” and “pizza.”
Well, personally, for me, the only way this question would become relevant would be if I were to get married. And since I’m not married, nor have I ever been, it’s all hypothetical.
So, hypothetically speaking, I’m not sure. I’ll admit, I do have an extra pillow that I like to sort of hug when I first lie down. But that’s a temporary thing. Because once I fall asleep, my usual hot-natured self tends to not want to touch anything because it just leads to me feeling too hot to stay asleep. I imagine that cuddling with a woman would also feel pleasant prior to falling asleep. However, I’m certain that more than the pillow, hanging on to another human being would be sort of like cuddling with a living furnace. I don’t think I’d last too long.
I gotta say, being single, I do enjoy having the entire bed to myself. I’ve been used to a twin size bed for most of my life. Now that I have a full size bed, I still stick to mostly one spot, but it’s nice to have the option to spread out if the mood strikes me.
But what about you? Are you a cuddler? Do you like to be the big spoon or the little? Let me know how you’d answer this question down in the comments!
*The Question of the Week can be found in The Book of Questions by Gregory Stock, Ph.D.