Question of the Week #484

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! This week's question is about connection — and what we actually need from other people when the options get stripped down to almost nothing. If you had to spend the next two years in a small, fully provisioned Antarctic shelter with one … Continue reading Question of the Week #484

Question of the Week #484

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! We've spent the last three weeks letting Gregory Stock slowly dismantle my self-image through a series of escalating bargains involving starving children and my internet connection. This week, he puts down the rhetorical sledgehammer and asks something a little more personal. Less … Continue reading Question of the Week #484

Question of the Week #483

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! For the past two weeks, Gregory Stock has been making us sit with a version of the same uncomfortable bargain: give something up for five years, and one thousand children will be permanently saved from starvation. Week one, it was the internet. … Continue reading Question of the Week #483

Question of the Week #482

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! Last week, Gregory Stock asked us whether we'd be willing to give up the internet for five years if doing so meant that one thousand children would be permanently provided for, saved from starvation. I said no — uncomfortably, honestly, without a … Continue reading Question of the Week #482

Question of the Week #481

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! This week, Gregory Stock puts something in front of us that sounds, on its surface, like the easiest question in the world. Of course you'd say yes. Of course you would. What kind of person would even hesitate? And yet — the … Continue reading Question of the Week #481

Question of the Week #480

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! This week, Gregory Stock asks us to sit with something that feels, on the surface, like a pretty simple hypothetical — but the more you actually think about it, the more layers it seems to have. Before we get there, a quick … Continue reading Question of the Week #480

Question of the Week #479

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! Last week, Gregory Stock sent us down a fairly spooky rabbit hole, asking whether we believe in ghosts or evil spirits — and then, as a follow-up, whether we'd be willing to spend a night alone in a remote, supposedly haunted house. … Continue reading Question of the Week #479

Question of the Week #477

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! Last week, Gregory Stock asked if I'd wear a voice-activated safety watch that tracked my whereabouts and could summon police with a shout. My answer was a pretty definitive "no"—partly because I don't wear watches, partly because my wrist breaks out in … Continue reading Question of the Week #477

Question of the Week #475

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! Last week, Gregory Stock had us wading into the deep end of interracial attraction and relationships — and apparently, he liked the water just fine, because this week he's asking us to wade in even deeper. This time, it's not about race. … Continue reading Question of the Week #475

Question of the Week #474

Welcome back to another Question of the Week here at The Confusing Middle! After last week's emotional deep-dive into crying at work and emotionally unavailable dogs, Gregory Stock has decided to pivot from "uncomfortable personal vulnerability" to "uncomfortable social commentary." Because apparently, we can't just have nice, easy questions about favorite ice cream flavors or … Continue reading Question of the Week #474